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I had written down some things about what I would like in a man, were I interested in having another relationship, simply because quite a few people had asked me about it. Now, nearly 12 months later, I've found I've thought about it a little more, and changed my mind on some things. My old "men" page can be found here. I don't believe that I need to be with anyone to be happy. I'm quite happy with my life as it is. But I'm not a man-hater either, and male companionship is a good thing :) My viewpoint is no longer "two-become-one" - at least not in the sense of losing one's individual identity. I remember back when I was married and people would actually get so used to describing us as "Perry and Raina" that they had trouble remembering my name when I was by myself. That's so incredibly unhealthy. I now believe that everyone needs to work on becoming complete in themselves, and then if they have a relationship, the relationship is a third entity which adds to both people, not takes away anything from them. Anyone that I was with would have to have the same attitude. I still don't believe anyone is perfect. And I still have some things that are non-negotiable and some preferable, that I would look for in a person I was going to be with. Some things haven't changed: Non-negotiable: Preferable: Things that just don't matter Last modified 22/08/2004 |
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